My name is Nathalie Fiset and I am
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am a family medical doctor and I am also a
certified hypnotherapist and using my
skills I have produced the most complete
and powerful program allowing a natural
and peaceful child birth using
hypnosis.
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Is natural child birth using hypnosis a
new trend? Will we be guinea pigs if we use this
for the birth of our child?
Hypnosis has been used for natural child birth
for a very long time. It was commonly used in the
nineteenth century before Ether was introduced in
obstetrics and surgery. Even before that period,
men and women instinctively went into a deep
focused and relaxed state whenever they needed
their bodies to perform certain tasks. They just
did not know then that they were using
hypnosis.
With all the technology modern medicine
has to offer, why would anyone consider child birth
without receiving all the potent drugs available?
Pregnancy is a very special time and we always
have to keep in mind that there is a very precious
and vulnerable person involved: THE BABY. The
placenta relays all the nutrients and oxygen the
baby needs but although it acts as a filter, most
drugs cross its barrier and are transmitted to the
baby. The book Medications and Mothers' Milk
classifies drugs with their potential risks to the
baby. Without going into details, we can say that
the classification goes from A to X, an "A" being a
drug that has no effect on the baby whatsoever.
Counting the over-the-counter common pills we take
like Tylenol, Advil, Gravol, Maalox, can you guess
how many medications are perfectly safe to use
during pregnancy and are classified class "A"? The
answer is "0"! So, besides water, a breath of fresh
air and love, we have to be careful what we expose
our unborn babies to.
This
is the reason so many expectant couples choose to
avoid taking drugs during pregnancy and especially
labor and opt for a natural child birth.
I don't want to be a "zombie" during the
birth of my baby. If I choose a natural child birth
using hypnosis, will I remember all that happened
or will I miss out on such a precious moment?
Hypnosis is a state of deep physical and mental
relaxation. Many famous athletes such as Tiger
Woods use hypnosis regularly (if you look at him
when he plays, he just seems deeply focused, not in
a distant galaxy). The state of mind that hypnosis
brings you into has been described as being "in the
zone" by many athletes; that is to say that you are
deeply focused and living the experience to its
fullest. Isnt this exactly what everyone
wants for that special day when their baby is
born?
Our program will also allow you to achieve, by
practicing and mastering self-hypnosis, eyes-opened
hypnosis. You will additionally be able to talk and
move around during your labor and use all the other
important tools to obtain a peaceful and natural
child birth using hypnosis. These tools include:
using the tub or Jacuzzi, massages, changing
positions frequently and using gravity to aid the
babys descent.
Are
there side effects to natural child birth using
hypnosis for me or my baby?
We are happy to say that there will be many side
effects to our program, all positive! Many women
and their spouses who use hypnosis for child birth
report the side effect of sleeping better.
By practicing hypnosis, they are calmer and fall
asleep much more easily at night. This is because
they have acquired a life-long tool that enables
them to relax and be able to push-away their
worries when the time comes to enjoy a peaceful
sleep at night. This also comes into play when they
need to be calm and focused at work.
I have often noticed the radiant glow women are
displaying when they come to their one-month after
birth visit. They are very proud to have achieved
using their own powerful capacities a natural child
birth with hypnosis. This very often raises their
confidence to a new level and is another
interesting side effect frequently seen.
There are also side effects to the baby. By not
having been exposed to slowing-down drugs, the baby
is more calm yet alert and is ready to face its new
life alongside its very proud parents.
What will be the role of my spouse in
all this if I am in hypnosis on my own?
Although you will have mastered the art of
self-hypnosis and will be able to achieve a great
deal on your own, your spouse will have a very
active role in helping you during the birthing
process. After all, those nice massages, that
refreshing face cloth, and especially those very
encouraging and inspiring positive reinforcing
messages from your spouse will be immensely
helpful. You can think of your spouse as the
trainer who follows the athlete during a marathon.
Although the athlete would have finished the
marathon and is the one doing the running, the
trainer is the one who makes it more enjoyable and
easier.
I have heard and read many times that
there is a certain percentage of the population who
cannot be hypnotized. What if I am one of them? How
can I know if I cannot get into hypnosis? Is there
a test I can do?
We
happen to think that everyone is hypnotizable. The
notions that women are more hypnotizable than men,
that 10% of the population will never be
hypnotized, etc., is incorrect. All of these
unverified notions have been promoted when a person
did not go into hypnosis. The truth of the matter
is that no one can put you in hypnosis against your
will because you always keep your own free will.
The other truth is that if you know that going into
hypnosis will help you achieve a great, peaceful
and fulfilling child birth, you will achieve
hypnosis very easily. People tend to over-analyze
what "being in hypnosis" feels like. To sum it up,
one could say it is similar to being in love. You
are not different, but you are not the same either.
Again, just like love, it is a pleasant feeling
that you will want to experience regularly once you
have experienced it.
One obstacle in reaching the state of hypnosis
is if you have a tendency to over-analyze what you
are feeling and what you think you should be
feeling and when you analyze what you think you
should be feeling...well, you get it! The trick to
enjoying hypnosis to its fullest is to allow it to
happen, to let go and enjoy the moment. No two
people experience hypnosis the same way because we
are all different. Furthermore, what you will
experience will vary from one hypnosis session to
the next. The range of what you will experience can
vary from hearing and recalling every word you
encounter while in hypnosis to taking
off to a very pleasant and distant
paradise...the choice will be yours!
If you still have doubts about "being able to go
in hypnosis", let us re-assure you. You go in
hypnosis regularly every day. For example, when you
are watching television and you jump when there is
a sudden noisy action, when you cry when your
favorite character dies (but you know that you will
see this actor again in another movie, very soon),
when you lose track of time while reading a very
good book, when you miss your exit on the highway
while driving because you "spaced out" for a while,
etc. As you can see, hypnosis is a natural,
pleasant state of mind that we all experience
regularly.
Now, imagine that if we can do major surgeries,
such as abdominal surgeries or amputations, with
hypnosis as the sole anesthesia,
what can be achieved for child birth using
hypnosis. The possibilities are infinite.
Will there be times when your program
will not work?
The
two major obstacles to natural child birth using
hypnosis are (1) Doubts about hypnosis and, even
worse, (2) Self-doubt about your abilities. For
this reason, we have included in our complete
program ways to build your self-confidence and ways
that will enable you to protect yourself from
down-talking people. After all, they have
experienced a painful, stress-filled, most likely
negative child birth, so why would you enjoy
anything better? In our program, you will build a
protective bubble around yourself, your baby and
your spouse and will be able to repel any
negativity and down-talking. Believe us - you will
encounter plenty of skepticism.
Why bother to go through all this
preparation and time-investment when there are so
many drugs available that have the power to "numb"
me through the whole child birthing process?
Some couples might choose to have their babies
"delivered". That is to say, to entirely rely on
the medical personnel to do whatever it takes to
get the baby out, and thats just fine for
them. For the others who wish to participate
actively and live to the fullest, the marvelous
experience of accompanying the passage of their
baby into this world, hypnosis has proven to be a
great natural and fulfilling tool. We have to keep
in mind that the more drugs and interventions, the
more the baby is exposed to all this. We know that
many medications have proven very detrimental to
babies, drugs such as D.E.S. and Thalidomide. Some
people might argue that now the laws are very
strict in controlling side-effects of medication
sand potential harms. This is unfortunately not the
truth. We dont have to look very far to see
the example of a certain anti-inflammatory that has
been taken off the market after it might have
caused as much as a 140,000 cardiovascular
accidents among its users. The final verdict on the
relation between the use of this medication and the
alleged deaths is yet to come but wouldn't you
agree that in the mean time we should expose our
little babies to the least possible drugs?
What
are the ways we can use hypnosis to have a more
comfortable and pleasant yet natural child birth?
2) Attending sessions with a qualified
hypnotherapist who can help you in preparing for
the birth. We recommend that you make certain this
hypnotherapist is qualified in teaching natural
child birth using hypnosis. If you have the
opportunity to have the therapist with you during
the child birthing process, that is wonderful. We
are hopeful that we will see more hypnotherapists
in the delivery rooms alongside the happy
couple.
3) If you do not wish to participate in classes
or you are prevented from attending (if you are on
complete bed rest or live in an area where no
classes are available) listening to self-hypnosis
recordings can be a very interesting alternative
and the results will surprise you!
Baby Carter at 22 weeks in
utero-3D picture
Can you tell me about your program? How
is it different from all the other hypnosis for
childbirth programs available?
First, it has been designed by a family doctor
who has attended more than two thousand births
(many of them natural, many of them with the help
of hypnosis) who teamed-up her medical experience
with her hypnosis knowledge to "conceive"
a complete method for using hypnosis as a
tool for natural child birth. By knowing the
reality of a hospital birth and by adapting our
program to it (by not trying to change the whole
medical teams vocabulary for example), we
were able to offer a program that you will be able
to use even if some circumstances are not 100%
natural which is so rarely the case anyway.
The spine of our program is the five
5P's
1) Programming. From very early
in life, a woman is programmed to think that child
birth is a very painful and hard experience she has
to go through to have her baby. It doesn't have to
be this way and more and more couples have proven
this fact. The first step is then to remove the
negative programming you have in your mind
concerning child birth. This implies from your part
that you will not expose yourself to negative
influences whether they be stressful television
shows about births, those complete pregnancy books
that insist on warning you of all the potential
dangers you are incurring every day of your
pregnancy. Even those "oh so thoughtful" people who
mean well but just want to warn you about all the
negative things that can happen to you and your
baby. When this happens, and believe us, times when
well-intended people will try to influence you into
fear and doubt will happen, think of us, smile and
also remember that there are over 6 billion human
beings on earth. Child birth is the most natural
and normal phenomenon possible and a baby is born
every second. How you choose to live it is entirely
up to you!
Once we have removed the negative programming,
we will help you and your spouse input new positive
and powerful new programs because as you know
nature does not like void. So if we created a
void, we have to fill it because
your subconscious might be tempted to fill it with
whatever negative programming it encounters. Again,
you will have to do your part and expose yourself
to very positive influences. Turning-off the
television will be a great start!
2)
Practice self-hypnosis:there are three
keys to successfully being able to achieve
self-hypnosis. They are: practice, practice, and
practice. Hence, only by practicing will you be
able to go into hypnosis rapidly and repeatedly,
going deeper every time. You will also be exposed
to practice in different situations because
lets face it, in real life,not everybody
whispers and talks positively about child birth.
You will learn self-hypnosis and your spouse will
be trained to be your re-enforcer and together you
will have the power to bring your little baby into
the daylight in a marvelous way.
3) Protective bubble: Many
couples prepare well but suffer sabotage from their
family, co-workers or the medical staff (yes we
admit it). By building this protective shield
around your little family-to-be, you will be able
to accomplish your goal. One piece of advice here:
Many hospitals allow the couple to invite whoever
they want for the child birth. Choose wisely! It is
very hard to be focused and relaxed when a person
is bombarding you with negatives messages which
can, on the long run, destabilize you enough to a
point where you doubt that you have the capacities
to achieve an easy, natural child birth. Our very
important piece of advice here is that if there is
another person present at birth, make certain this
person is supportive of your venture.
4) Pushing: Its great to
be relaxed and your baby will show appreciation for
your openness by placing itself more rapidly and
comfortably. With the help of our
program, you will have the power to help your baby
in its journey through your birth canal in the most
pleasant and powerful way.
5) Powerful anesthesia: By now,
you know that you can achieve an amazing level of
anesthesia while enjoying every moment of your
birth, with the help of your own mind. You will be
amazed how you can achieve such a level of body
control and, yes, you get to keep this tool for
life!