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In
the post-partum period, many couples
are faced with welcoming a second or
even third child into the house. Hence,
when a couple already has a child, a
newborn baby can bring its load of joy
and challenge.
In order to understand the first
child's reaction, you have to put
yourself in their shoes: from being the
king, they fall back to being the
prince. In short, all the attention
that was directed towards the first
born is now redirected in the direction
of this precious newborn. You cannot
blame a child for reacting and
acting-up as the newborn is taking all
the attention and time of his beloved
parents.
In order to make the transition easier
for a child when bringing home a newborn
baby, there are basic proven strategies
that work well. I always tell my patients
who complain about their first child
reacting to the newborn's arriving by
drawing this parallel: "How would you
react if your husband brought home another
woman one day and said: 'Look at her!
Isn't she the most beautiful person in the
world? I just love her!'".
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This is the same thing new parents are
often doing when they bring in their
newborn baby devoting all their attention
to him.
There are ways to prevent post-partum
problems by smoothing the transition for
the existing child. Such tricks as
bringing a gift to the child and telling
him that the baby
gave it to him can help make the switch
easier. It is also recommended to have the
older child participate in the newborn
care by fetching diapers and other things.
This way, the older child grows into its
role of being the helpful one and does not
end-up resenting the new baby in the
house.
Another very good trick in making the
transition easier for the older child when
bringing home a newborn baby is by
re-assuring this older child that he has
not lost any of his parent's love and
attention. Hence, whenever the newborn
baby is resting sleeping, sitting down
with the older sibling will have the
effect of showing that he did not lose his
parents but rather gained a brother or a
sister.

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